I really enjoy going to therapy. Is that weird?
Well, I’m kind of weird, so whatever.
While I won’t talk about most of what my (awesome) therapist and I talk about, there’s certainly advice I’m getting from her that might be helpful for a wider audience than just me, myself and I.
One of the things we talked about last week was mantras.
We were talking about mantras I can use for meditation while calm to train myself to stay calmer in situations that may cause me anxiety.
Have you ever used mantras, she asked?
Yes! While I used to think the word “mantra” was super hippie-dippie, once I saw this video on Katy’s blog I realized that I had been using mantras myself when running.
Quick definition for anyone who doesn’t know what a mantra is and is too lazy to Google:
Thank you, Mr. Webster.
While negative mantras like “STFU and run” are definitely part of my repertoire sometimes–and truthfully, do motivate me to do just that–it’s obviously the positive mantras that help more.
From the NYC Marathon: “You’re almost there! Don’t walk! You can do this! Don’t walk. Don’t walk.”
From Marine Corps: “I kept telling myself ‘no more than 20 minutes. 2 miles. This is nothing.'”
“Well, have you ever used a visual focal point while running?” she asked.
“Um, I guess I pick a person when running and focus on them until I pass them?”
My mantras in the past have always been longer and more complex, but she suggested just one word:
SPEED.
I mean, that’s all you really need to focus on.
She told me to focus on one person while running and exhale the word “speed,” repeatedly.
I tried that the other day, and while I dropped down to the half too late to go for any sort of PR, I tried it on one dude and I felt a crazy amount of focus.
Or maybe I just felt a little lightheaded from the focused breathing. Unclear.
Do you use mantras while running…or just in life? What are some of your favorites?
Here’s an awesome article on mantras for running from Runner’s World with lots of them for you to choose from. Also, my girl Jocelyn hasn’t specifically written about mantras, but she has written about positive thinking + running…and the girl knows a few things about awesome PRs.
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I love mantras! They have been key in my life... they help me in everyday life and they helped me through some major traumas.
One of my favorite mantras is from Theodore Roosevelt... "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are." By doing that, I recovered better than I ever thought I would from severe physical injuries and from depression.
I also use mantras when I run and I wrote about one of my favorite here:
http://www.janetober.com/2012/04/30/running-mantra%E2%80%94run-the-mile-you-are-in/
I love mantras! I didn't realize their importance until my first half-marathon. They varied, from "!#(^I* this hill" to "[best friend] beat cancer twice, you can run up this hill!" And, yes, "DON'T WALK" made a frequent appearance.
I think it's really sad how therapy has such negative connotations in America. I think it is so important! Thank you for being so open and positive about it!
Mantras make me happy. Stronger, Faster, Better is one of mine. I also like to repeat, Strong as a Bear, fast as a Cheetah. When I got injured during my Vancouver marathon I just kept saying run til 20, run til 20, which kept me from quitting!
@MegG: Strong as a bear, fast as a cheetah? I love that one.
I liked 'Be strong, be brave, this is what you came here for' during my last half marathon! I particularly liked the 'be brave'...if ever I get an Erica Sara bracelet, it'll say '...be brave'.
Love a mantra for running and for motivating myself to get to the gym- FITSPIRATION.
'One day you won't be able to do this, today is not that day'
I am big on mantra's! "Stronger than yesterday" is one that I use when I am running.
Yes! Running up hills during a race, I always have to tell myself something like "One foot in front of the other." or "Keep moving. You can do it."
My constant life mantra is "Attitude is everything!"
I'm with you, I love therapy. I believe in that Buddhist concept that says, basically, that we cause a lot of our own pain by wanting things to be different than they are. So I often remind myself that "it is what it is". For me, that's a shortened version of 'look, wishing it wasn't so, or getting mad/sad/depressed about what's going on won't change it. Accept it, then figure out if you can fix it, or not. But stop making it worse by all your bellyaching'.
@Vicky: Exactly. Lately I have tried to be better about accepting things and figuring out how to move on, and it's been very helpful.
I stuggled horribly with the mental aspect of running while training for my first marathon. I had to keep telling myself "You can do this", "You're ok", "You've got this, just relax and enjoy it".
It worked!
Yes, I love to pep myself with mantras when running!
'this is going to make you stronger'
'you CAN do this, so DO it'
'you are stronger than you think'