I’m sort of obsessed with the Jillian Michaels podcast. Most of it doesn’t even talk about fitness — a lot of it is about Jillian’s life experience and her dealings with people and the lessons she’s learned emotionally. My life and your life are very different from this celebrity trainer, but she’s still really real and vulnerable, and it’s like free therapy in my ear that makes my therapist’s vacation seem a lot shorter.

Yesterday on my run*, I listened to a recent episode called “Jill Finds the Zen.” My BFF Jill talked about how despite a lot of drama she’s experienced this year, she’s learned to let a lot of it go and accept it and find the zen. She talked about a man who said his perfect day — one day — would involve a few hours of work, an hour at the gym, plenty of sexy time with his wife and hanging out with his son. “Why wait?” Jillian challenged. The man left work early one day to spend some extra time with his son, and the son said it was the best day of his life.

We can wait until we’re on vacation or we retire to have a perfect day, or we can bring elements of that perfect day into our everyday for those moments that matter.

This morning, I was working from home. I love my coworkers and sometimes get lonely working all day alone in my apartment, so working from home isn’t always exciting to me. But today, I decided I’d make it feel like a luxury.

I chose to save my workout for lunchtime since I didn’t have to waste time showering before work and lounged around for a bit and made a ginormous mug of coffee before diving into the day.

I put on a cozy pair of snowflake jammies, lit a candle and decided to enjoy the rare moment I got to work in the quiet of my own apartment during the day with my little dog by my side, rocking out to some music.

My life is far from perfect, and there were definitely other things I was preoccupied about, but for part of today, I put that aside and made this the best damn work from home day I could.

What are the moments that matter to you? How do you celebrate the small things?

*I started training for the RNR DC Half yesterday! I’m so excited to be back on a training plan and will be sharing more about my running soon! as my training progresses!

I mentioned the other day I was REALLY excited to go to The Path meditation group this morning.

photo via The Path

WOW. I really can’t think of a better way to start a Monday morning. Normally, a Monday morning has me rushing off to work or some appointment or event, but this morning, I walked down to Union Square and just sat there in the power of stillness for an hour listening to Elena Brower.

The practice guides you through energizing, mindfulness, mantra and compassion techniques of meditation.

Energizing reminded me of some Kundalini meditation I’ve done. We did stuff like Breath of Fire, a move where you twist to the left to inhale, twist to the right to exhale, and other stuff like that. Since I felt like having coffee before meditation might defeat the purpose of quieting my mind a bit, the energizing meditations were more than welcome!

From there, we moved into simple mindfulness meditation, where we were guided to just be with our thoughts, and accepting of them. I accepted that I was really craving a breakfast wrap afterwards as my stomach growled. I also felt thoughts about my to-do list start to sneak into my head and reminded myself that I had all day to think about that and this time was for being in the present. Once I actually let myself into the mindfulness, I found myself nodding off a bit.

After that, we moved into mantra meditation, focusing on a sweet, short phrase that we repeated in our heads. I really like mantras, because it’s hard to think about anything else when you’re channeling a mantra.

The last part of the session was compassion meditation, which was my favorite part, and the most powerful. We were asked first to grant compassion — safety, ease — to ourselves. For someone who certainly struggles with automatic negative thoughts, granting myself this compassion and permission felt really nice. After that, we were asked to grant compassion to someone we cared about. My sweet coworker Alex was with me and sitting next to me, so I granted compassion to her. We were then asked to grant compassion to someone neutral in our lives, like a barista or security guard. Finally, we were asked to grant compassion to someone we struggle with. I’ve done this before in difficult times with difficult people, and it’s incredibly freeing — to let go of those negative feelings towards them, even if only temporarily.

Mentally, the hour went by SO quickly! By the time Elena said we had just a few minutes left, I was shocked. Physically, I was starting to get slightly uncomfortable sitting still on a cushion for an hour.

I left feeling so much lighter and refreshed and ready to take on the day. I’ll be honest that that feeling didn’t last all day, but starting the day like that is a good reminder to bring meditation back into my life.

If you’re not in NYC, here’s a few of my favorite meditation resources. I actually just re-downloaded one of Gabby Bernstein’s albums and plan on a little more meditation before bed tonight. I also love following her on Spotify as well as Chelsea from Uplift who has some great playlists that feel almost meditative. That’s the only thing I would have liked to have changed this morning – some gentle, quiet music.

Do you meditate? If not, what feels meditative to you? Running certainly does to me